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i was recently injured during edge play and need to get my thoughts on it down on paper, both for my own benefit and for the other participants.  The injury is likely temporary in nature but could easily have been permanent. The injury occurred during a session of rope suspension where i was bound, hands behind my back and suspended horizontally and on my right side. There were three points of suspension with good weight distribution. Read the rest of this entry »

This is absolutely ridiculous!!!  For months i have struggled with differing forms of orgasm control imposed by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss.  i have wondered constantly if there was purpose to Her experimentation or whether She was just amusing Herself.  i still don’t know the answer to that, and likely never will, but now that i have been released from all forms of orgasm control, and can cum whenever i choose to, in whatever way i choose…i find that i miss it!! Read the rest of this entry »

On this site i am Ownersboy.  On another i am KnowmyPlace. Both names were given me by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss and both are meant to remind me that i am a slave.  So what does that mean to me?  or to Her?  Read the rest of this entry »

Everyone says it…”communication is the key to a successful relationship”.  This, of course, is particularly true in the world of BDSM where a failure to communicate under the wrong circumstances can lead to serious injury, but still, it is a given. One of the building blocks as it were, right up there with honesty and openness. I’ve never had a problem with honesty and openness, but the communication part can be a challenge, at least for me. Read the rest of this entry »

i was once again reminded that i am primarily a service submissive.  For the past few weeks, i have been unable to spend as much time as i would wish with LadyHotchKiss and tending to Her household handyman needs.  There are a number of projects that have been suffering as a result.  The play time has not been affected, but i noticed that i was not enjoying the playtime nearly as much. Read the rest of this entry »

It would be nice if i could live BDSM 24/7, unfortunately (and sometimes fortunately), the rest of the world will sometimes insist that i pay some attention. This blog is about one of those times. Read the rest of this entry »

Social networks such as Fetlife and Collarme can provide very useful functions for those of us in the BDSM “lifestyle”.  They can be places to meet others of like mind, both in your area and around the world, places to go to learn about different kinks and other activities, places to go to just play and have fun with new found friends.  Read the rest of this entry »