Posts Tagged ‘BDSM’
Edge play and injury
i was recently injured during edge play and need to get my thoughts on it down on paper, both for my own benefit and for the other participants. The injury is likely temporary in nature but could easily have been permanent. The injury occurred during a session of rope suspension where i was bound, hands behind my back and suspended horizontally and on my right side. There were three points of suspension with good weight distribution. Read the rest of this entry »
Orgasm control – Part VI
This is absolutely ridiculous!!! For months i have struggled with differing forms of orgasm control imposed by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss. i have wondered constantly if there was purpose to Her experimentation or whether She was just amusing Herself. i still don’t know the answer to that, and likely never will, but now that i have been released from all forms of orgasm control, and can cum whenever i choose to, in whatever way i choose…i find that i miss it!! Read the rest of this entry »
Orgasms
LadyHotchKiss requires that i report to Her each time i have an orgasm, so this time i thought i’d share with my readers. As most of you know, i’ve been undergoing a series of experiments at the hands of LadyH concerning orgasm control and orgasm denial which have produced some interesting results. Read the rest of this entry »
Orgasm Control – Part V
This is the latest in a series written about my experiences with orgasm control and denial at the hands of Lady HotchKiss. As my readers know, i recently completed two extended periods of orgasm denial (at least they seemed extended to me, i understand others have gone far longer). The first of those lasted 74 days and the second was 49 days. The second was the more frustrating however because i was made to “edge” every day and to slap my cock and balls while edging. Once again, when it was finally over, i experienced a most incredible orgasm. i told LadyH at the time that it felt almost painful, as though my balls were trying to escape through my cock. Read the rest of this entry »
Names
On this site i am Ownersboy. On another i am KnowmyPlace. Both names were given me by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss and both are meant to remind me that i am a slave. So what does that mean to me? or to Her? Read the rest of this entry »
Orgasm Control – Part IV
Yeah, i know, it’s becoming a fixation with me. But my Owner, LadyHotchKiss, keeps throwing more curves at me, causing me to experience it in different, even more intense ways. The last time i wrote of this subject, i told you that She had let me release and then immediately put me back under orgasm denial. (Orgasm denial differs from orgasm control in that under control, one is allowed to release under certain circumstances, i.e. once per week, upon accomplishing a known task, etc., whereas orgasm denial is just that…no orgasm allowed until and unless She relents). Read the rest of this entry »
Communication
Everyone says it…”communication is the key to a successful relationship”. This, of course, is particularly true in the world of BDSM where a failure to communicate under the wrong circumstances can lead to serious injury, but still, it is a given. One of the building blocks as it were, right up there with honesty and openness. I’ve never had a problem with honesty and openness, but the communication part can be a challenge, at least for me. Read the rest of this entry »