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This is absolutely ridiculous!!!  For months i have struggled with differing forms of orgasm control imposed by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss.  i have wondered constantly if there was purpose to Her experimentation or whether She was just amusing Herself.  i still don’t know the answer to that, and likely never will, but now that i have been released from all forms of orgasm control, and can cum whenever i choose to, in whatever way i choose…i find that i miss it!! Read the rest of this entry »

This is the latest in a series written about my experiences with orgasm control and denial at the hands of Lady HotchKiss.  As my readers know, i recently completed two extended periods of orgasm denial (at least they seemed extended to me, i understand others have gone far longer).  The first of those lasted 74 days and the second was 49 days.  The second was the more frustrating however because i was made to “edge” every day and to slap my cock and balls while edging.  Once again, when it was finally over, i experienced a most incredible orgasm.  i told LadyH at the time that it felt almost painful, as though my balls were trying to escape through my cock. Read the rest of this entry »

Yeah, i know, it’s becoming a fixation with me.  But my Owner, LadyHotchKiss, keeps throwing more curves at me, causing me to experience it in different, even more intense ways.  The last time i wrote of this subject, i told you that She had let me release and then immediately put me back under orgasm denial.  (Orgasm denial differs from orgasm control in that under control, one is allowed to release under certain circumstances, i.e. once per week, upon accomplishing a known task, etc., whereas orgasm denial is just that…no orgasm allowed until and unless She relents). Read the rest of this entry »

i was once again reminded that i am primarily a service submissive.  For the past few weeks, i have been unable to spend as much time as i would wish with LadyHotchKiss and tending to Her household handyman needs.  There are a number of projects that have been suffering as a result.  The play time has not been affected, but i noticed that i was not enjoying the playtime nearly as much. Read the rest of this entry »

Orgasm Denial….arggghhhhh….dreaded words to a sub/slave.  It’s not that we can’t go without an orgasm for a certain period of time, it’s that so much of what we do is sensual in nature.  Combine the sensual/sexual nature of what we do with an edict that one may not have an orgasm does serve to heighten the sensuality, but it also produces, at least in males, an unpleasant physiological response commonly referred to as “blue balls”.  Read the rest of this entry »

i have written about the use of medical sounds (called sounding by some) before, but it has been some time and i believe the last time i wrote about it, it was a description of my first experience.  Just the thought of a long metal rod being inserted in one’s cock was enough to send chills up my spine, and that first experience was marked by my fear of the unknown to the point where that fear was the most relevant part of the experience.  Read the rest of this entry »

A question brought up by my Owner, LadyHotchKiss, has prompted this post.  i had come to believe that Her idea of punishment was proper, appropriate and served a good purpose.  She has always styled the punishment to relate closely to the infraction and has always striven to ensure the punishment taught a needed lesson.  But the more i think about the subject, the more i am coming to believe that corporal punishment also has a place in the M/s dynamic.  Unless, of course, the one being punished is indeed a masochist, in which case it does no good at all.  Read the rest of this entry »