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Yeah, i know, it’s becoming a fixation with me.  But my Owner, LadyHotchKiss, keeps throwing more curves at me, causing me to experience it in different, even more intense ways.  The last time i wrote of this subject, i told you that She had let me release and then immediately put me back under orgasm denial.  (Orgasm denial differs from orgasm control in that under control, one is allowed to release under certain circumstances, i.e. once per week, upon accomplishing a known task, etc., whereas orgasm denial is just that…no orgasm allowed until and unless She relents). Read the rest of this entry »

Everyone says it…”communication is the key to a successful relationship”.  This, of course, is particularly true in the world of BDSM where a failure to communicate under the wrong circumstances can lead to serious injury, but still, it is a given. One of the building blocks as it were, right up there with honesty and openness. I’ve never had a problem with honesty and openness, but the communication part can be a challenge, at least for me. Read the rest of this entry »

i was once again reminded that i am primarily a service submissive.  For the past few weeks, i have been unable to spend as much time as i would wish with LadyHotchKiss and tending to Her household handyman needs.  There are a number of projects that have been suffering as a result.  The play time has not been affected, but i noticed that i was not enjoying the playtime nearly as much. Read the rest of this entry »

Orgasm Denial….arggghhhhh….dreaded words to a sub/slave.  It’s not that we can’t go without an orgasm for a certain period of time, it’s that so much of what we do is sensual in nature.  Combine the sensual/sexual nature of what we do with an edict that one may not have an orgasm does serve to heighten the sensuality, but it also produces, at least in males, an unpleasant physiological response commonly referred to as “blue balls”.  Read the rest of this entry »

It would be nice if i could live BDSM 24/7, unfortunately (and sometimes fortunately), the rest of the world will sometimes insist that i pay some attention. This blog is about one of those times. Read the rest of this entry »

i have written about the use of medical sounds (called sounding by some) before, but it has been some time and i believe the last time i wrote about it, it was a description of my first experience.  Just the thought of a long metal rod being inserted in one’s cock was enough to send chills up my spine, and that first experience was marked by my fear of the unknown to the point where that fear was the most relevant part of the experience.  Read the rest of this entry »

Social networks such as Fetlife and Collarme can provide very useful functions for those of us in the BDSM “lifestyle”.  They can be places to meet others of like mind, both in your area and around the world, places to go to learn about different kinks and other activities, places to go to just play and have fun with new found friends.  Read the rest of this entry »